WEEKLY SERMON
Saints Triumphant – November 15, 20091
Thessalonians 4:13-18 -
“It’s Okay to Cry”
Brothers and sisters in Christ,
In our Bible classes last week on John’s gospel we studied how
Jesus raised his friend Lazarus from the dead.
In that section is the shortest verse in the Bible,
Jesus wept.
They may be two short words, but they say a lot.
Here was Jesus crying at the death of his good friend, but as the
all-powerful Son of God he knew what he was going to do.
As he looked into the faces of Lazarus’ sisters, Mary and Martha,
John tells us that Jesus was deeply moved, that he was filled with
compassion for the sisters.
But he also knew that very soon he would bring them great joy.
It also says that Jesus was troubled in spirit when he was shown
Lazarus’ tomb. He wept
because of the ache in his heart over the effects of sin and death.
But the sinless Lamb of God, in just a few short weeks, would
shatter the power of Satan and of death.
So there were mixed emotions for our Savior on that occasion,
displaying for us the comforting fact that he was a real human being,
and so he is able to sympathize with us in our weakness, even in the
time of death.
So we come to a funeral and we weep.
And, depending on how close we were to the person, we may weep
again and again in the weeks, months and years that follow.
We have the memories, we miss our friend or loved one.
But when that person is a believer at that funeral we will have
mixed emotions. On the one
hand there is the fact that there may be a big void in our lives for
awhile because our loved one is gone.
But on the other hand, because of our faith in Jesus and their
faith in that Savior, we are confident that we will see them again.
That’s not just empty psychology meant to calm our fears and keep
us functioning in life.
Today we want to look at the basis for what I call our ‘resurrection’
faith, the faith that sustains us even in the face of death.
Such a resurrection faith is very much different from the
attitudes and philosophies of the unbelieving world.
So I can say to you fellow believers, when you face death…
IT’S OKAY TO CRY
It’s okay because we know what will happen on the Last Day.
And it’s okay because we know who’s in charge on that Last Day.
I.
The lack of knowledge was caused by Paul’s sudden departure from
their city. He had only
been able to spend about a month there preaching and teaching about
Jesus as Savior. The Holy
Spirit had blessed those efforts as many were brought to faith,
especially among the non-Jews.
But then a persecution against the Christians had broken out and
Paul was forced to flee.
Thus, he and his fellow missionaries hadn’t had time to finish teaching
the Thessalonians everything they needed to know.
And here it seems one of those areas still to be covered was
teaching them about the resurrection from the dead and the last day.
That was one of the reasons he wrote this letter, four or five
months after he fled, to fill in some of those gaps.
During the time since he had been there, some of the believers
had died, probably as a result of the persecution.
Their fellow believers were in the dark, had lost hope, didn’t
know how to handle it. From
their pagan Greek background all they knew about was Hades.
That was the realm of the dead according to Greek mythology and
it wasn’t at all a place of joy or happiness.
It’s described as dark and gloomy, where you were assigned a task
by the gods that fit with your level of goodness or evil in life.
But the over-riding feeling was one of dreariness and depression,
an existence that hardly fostered hope and confidence.
So, if that’s all the Christians had to look forward to, what was
the advantage of believing in Jesus, especially if you were a target of
persecution?
Are there the same kinds of ignorance and false teaching
surrounding death and the end times still out there today?
Sure there are. I’ve
had conversations with those who are terrified when death enters their
lives, either facing their own death or that of a loved one.
There are the terrors of conscience that torment them because of
the sins they have committed in this life.
They realize that they are accountable to God and they don’t know
the love and forgiveness that can be theirs through faith in Jesus.
I’ve seen people at funerals whose idea of death is that it’s the
end of existence, that it’s a total and final loss.
They may prattle on about the good things the person did in this
life and trot out a tally of their accomplishments.
But then that’s it.
And really, what else can they talk about?
Is it any wonder that they wail and sob and grieve, because they
have absolutely no hope for a new and better life in heaven?
And sadly, they may have every reason to think that way if the
person who died showed no faith in Jesus as their Savior.
But here Paul reassures the believers that there is something far
better to look forward to, that there is absolutely no reason for
hopeless grieving and sobbing, at least not at the death of a Christian.
Rather, it’s okay to cry because we know what’s happening to our
friend or loved one if they are believers in Jesus.
Paul gives us a lot of the details here, and the rest of
Scripture, both Old and New Testament, helps us too.
In Ecclesiastes, King Solomon wrote,
the dust returns to the ground
it came from, and the spirit returns to God who gave it.
That tells us that our bodies simply decay back into their
natural elements. God had
told Adam right after he had been created that he was simply dust and
that he would return to dust after he had died.
But that’s not the end of our existence like some believe.
We also have a soul and it is that soul which continues on.
For the believer that soul goes immediately to be with the
Savior. The soul of the
unbeliever goes immediately to hell.
Jesus made that clear in his parable of the Rich Man and Lazarus.
There’s no middle ground, no place of temporary punishment called
purgatory or limbo. Nor do
any souls spend time hanging around here on earth, haunting a house or a
woods or a cemetery. And
there’s no changing from one place to the other.
Once you die, your fate is sealed, heaven for believers, hell for
unbelievers.
What our level of consciousness is after we die, that is somewhat
of a mystery. Here and
elsewhere the Bible calls it sleeping.
For our bodies, that’s what it’s like – going to bed at night.
I don’t know about you, but I’m not afraid of that because the
next thing I’m aware of is that it’s several hours later and the radio
alarm is going off and it’s time to get up.
Whether our souls in heaven are aware of what’s going on here on
earth, or how much time is passing, that we don’t know.
But we do know that our souls are in heaven enjoying the bliss of
being in the presence of Jesus, safe and secure in the arms of our
Savior.
And then comes the Last Day.
The Bible doesn’t tell us when that will be, that only God
himself knows what day it will take place.
All we know is that it will come unexpectedly, like a thief in
the night, like labor pains on pregnant woman.
But everyone will know that it’s happening.
The Lord himself will
come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the
archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will
rise first. Jesus’
return will be announced emphatically and triumphantly.
What the shout and command will be, we don’t know the exact
words. But my guess is that
they will be similar to what Jesus said when he raised Lazarus from the
dead, that he will call on all the dead to come out of their graves to
meet him. That’s when our
bodies will be brought back to life and transformed.
The Bible tells us that they will be changed in a flash, in the
twinkling of an eye. No
longer will they be perishable bodies, subject to the ravages of sin and
illness, disease and death.
No more arthritis or eye trouble, hearing aids or wheel chairs.
We will have new and glorified bodies that will be imperishable,
able to last for all eternity.
It’s almost too wonderful for us to imagine what that will be
like.
Paul really emphasizes that here, because the misconception among
the Thessalonians was that those who died before Jesus returned would
miss out on being taken to heaven.
Not at all, he says!
Those who are alive when Jesus comes back, they will receive those
glorified bodies as well, and then we will all be gathered before the
Lord for his judgment. That
will be his public announcement about those who will be going to heaven
because they lived their faith in him as Lord and Savior, and about
those who rejected his love and forgiveness and so will be destined for
hell. Then we will be
caught up in the air to be taken to heaven where we will be with the
Lord forever. We will enjoy
the triumph of Jesus over sin, death, Satan and hell.
We will be reunited forever with all our loved ones who have died
with faith in Jesus. We
will indeed be part of the Saints Triumphant.
What a day that will be for us as people of God!
So if you are looking ahead to your own death, or if you are
mourning the death of a believing loved one, whether recently or many
years ago, it’s okay to cry because we know what happens to those who
die in the Lord. And we
know what will happen in the future, when our Lord brings this world to
an end. We have hope.
We have trust and confidence in the promises of our Savior.
It’s okay to cry because we know who’s in charge at the time of
our death and on that Last Day.
Our resurrection faith is all about Jesus, the one who, Paul says
here, died and rose again, and
so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen
asleep in him. That’s
what Paul had taught the Thessalonians.
That was their sure faith and hope.
They knew and we know that it is because of sin that there is
death in the world. From
the time our first parents disobeyed God in the garden, sin has had a
stranglehold on humanity.
And with sin comes death.
That is the wage it earns, the curse it carries.
We will all die.
But God in his love devised and carried out the perfect plan to
deal with sin, to break that stranglehold and take away the fear.
In love for us lost sinners He sent his one and only Son, Jesus
Christ. Because he was the
Son of God, Jesus could live the perfect life none of us can.
And yet he still allowed himself to be put to death, taking our
sins on his shoulders, paying the penalty that should have been ours.
On Calvary’s cross he endured the agony of hell in our place so
that now, through faith in him we can look forward to eternity in
heaven. On that cross, he
died to crush Satan’s power over us.
Through faith in Jesus we can now escape the eternal torment of
hell. The peace and comfort we have, even in the face of death, it all
comes because of Jesus.
He’s the one in charge and he showed it by raising himself from the
grave on that first Easter morning.
That’s what makes Christianity unique, the one true religion in
all the world. We have a
living Savior, one who promises to use that same power on behalf of his
followers, a power we will see and feel in our bodies come the last day.
That is what gives us hope.
This is more than just a “pie-in-the-sky” kind of hope, the kind
of hope a child might express when making out a Christmas list, “I hope
I get this; I hope I get that.”
This is real. This
is solid. This hope we have
as Christians is based on a living Savior who is God himself, who
demonstrated his power over death by his resurrection from the death.
So it’s okay to cry at a funeral of a believing loved one.
And maybe some tears will be shed later on today when we read the
names of our fellow Woodlawn members who have died this past year.
They will be tears of sorrow and loss.
But they will be mingled with feelings of hope and joy.
That’s because we and they will be part of the victory parade
into heaven. We will be
part of that vast array of believers from every generation and nation,
the parade of Saints Triumphant.
AMEN.

